tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31526482.post2094082814887977537..comments2023-05-05T02:55:02.494-05:00Comments on Sweet Surrender.: ((Opposites Attract.))Sarah Renéehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08868783514206993295noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31526482.post-91243354284782645062007-06-19T22:32:00.000-05:002007-06-19T22:32:00.000-05:00Wow, thanks for all your input Ginger!! I really e...Wow, thanks for all your input Ginger!! I really enjoyed reading your thoughts/life experience! :)Sarah Renéehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08868783514206993295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31526482.post-16109137457716769412007-06-19T21:27:00.000-05:002007-06-19T21:27:00.000-05:00(Oh... and a couple more important things... praye...(Oh... and a couple more important things... prayer (together and separately) about your relationship, and also for you to grow as a person...And, just being willing to keep communicating (in a kind way...). It's easy to want to shut down and put a wall up and play games like that. But that's how a lot of marriages fall apart.<BR/><BR/>I obviously feel strongly on this marriage matter!Ginger Murrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16907862737523083352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31526482.post-2380826349357039372007-06-19T21:24:00.000-05:002007-06-19T21:24:00.000-05:00I agree... commitment is where it has to happen. I...I agree... commitment is where it has to happen. I would say if she's not ready to be married, and is having doubts, they should hold off (not reset the date, just hold off and wait for God to let them know whether it is in his will for them to get married.). I know from experience, that if you argue about things, when you live together you'll argue even more... My husband and I have been learning more about love through our marriage commitment... what it means to be kind to one another, and be selfless... And it's HARD!<BR/>But really great at the same time.<BR/>We're coming up on our one-year anniversary in July, and I am so proud that we have come so far in even a year. I can't wait to see what the future holds. I can understand how it would be easy for so many couples to just give up, and get out. But the commitment part... you just have to suck it up, forgive and/or apologize and keep going...<BR/>Just some thoughts from a newlywed:)Ginger Murrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16907862737523083352noreply@blogger.com